No one likes to make mistakes, but we all do and we just have to accept that someday it’s going to happen to us. Whatever our mistake is, it’s nowhere near as important as how we react to it and what we learn from it. In this week’s video, Jason talks about how to get our mindset right after making a mistake and the three steps we need to take before we can begin to learn from it. One of the most important aspects of the process of learning about our mistakes is to engage in self-reflection and take an objective look at the root causes of the mistake. Asking ourselves some key questions will help us adopt a rational process to overcoming mistakes. Here are a few examples of questions that might be valuable to figuring out the real cause of a mistake:
Overcoming Mistakes Through Reflective Questions
- Was there information out there that I didn’t have that could have helped?
- Was there information that I had that I didn’t use to make my decision?
- Was there someone I know with experience I could have consulted with before proceeding?
- Were there others who had an opposing or different perspective that I could have considered?
- Were there external factors that I didn’t consider or fully understand?
- Did I have a thorough understanding of the flow of the activity and the people who needed to be involved?
The only way a mistake can truly be a wasted experience is if we don’t find a way to learn something from it. Adopting a healthy mindset towards mistakes and learning valuable lessons from every mistake can help us grow into stronger leaders and help those around us benefit from our experience too.
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