One of the reasons we become leaders is to influence others in a positive direction to make the world a better place, but we often underestimate our ability and feel that we are not important enough or experienced enough to have much sway over what others think. The reality is that we have an influence over those around us every day but just don’t consciously think about it. Most people care about their organizations and are open about discussion and debate about how to best achieve the results we want. If each of us really thought about it we all have at least one or two areas where we have some extensive knowledge or perspective that we can use to help shape others opinions about how to move forward successfully. Being conscious of the influence we have on others and using it wisely to promote positive change is one of our most important responsibilities as leaders.
Positive Ways to Influence Others
- Find the knowledge and expertise that you have that no one else has
- Figure out who the audience is or the group of people who this topic is important to and share your thoughts and ideas with them
- Tell your story – use real examples and experiences from your own life to emphasize the points you’re trying to make
- Pick your moments wisely – sharing your thoughts and experiences at the appropriate moment is often more important than what you share
Setting ourselves up with a positive mindset about influence before we share is critical to getting our message across. Approaching conversations from the perspective of sharing and being open-minded is often received better than if we are seeking to portray ourselves as an expert or persuading others to get our own way.
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